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Sex crimes are a prevalent and controversial problem on both a national and an international scale. Modern sex crimes may involve a single or group of sexual offenders. The victim of sex crimes may experience a variety of grotesque and unwelcoming sexual acts; the most predominate sexual crimes in the western world include rape, sexual assault, child sexual abuse, human trafficking, and prostitution.
Law enforcement agencies have executed many strategies that aim to protect men, women, and especially children from sexual offenders. Any sexually deviant act with a minor can literally ruin the lives of those who expose them to inappropriate material, gestures, and acts. Every sexual offender has their name entered into a national registry that informs entire neighborhoods of their whereabouts, including their current residential address.

Rape

Rape involves forcible sexual intercourse initiated by one or more persons against a non-consenting individual. A rapist may exert physical force, abuse their authority, threaten, or blackmail an individual into having sexual intercourse against their will. Rape knows no boundaries as it happens in all regions of the world. According to the American Medical Association (AMA), sexual violence and coercion via rape ranks as the highest under-reported violet crime. The United States Bureau of Justice Statistics reports that ninety-one percent of all rape victims happen to be women and nine percent male. In addition, an astounding ninety-nine percent of all rapists are male. Rape may also occur between the victim and a person he or she knows personally.

  • The National Institute of Justice: Rape and Sexual Violence: A government website that defines rape and other forms of sexual violence, such as sexual assault, sexual battery, and even sexual harassment.
  • New York Division of State Police: Date Rape: A police-based website that describes the phenomena as "date rape," where an unsuspecting victim falls into the hands of a sexual predator after a casual date.
  • Girl's Health: Rape and Date Rape: A female-based website intended to inform young women about the potential danger of rape, even from those they least expected.
  • The United States Department of Justice: Office of Community Oriented Policing Services: COPS releases a document to raise public awareness for college students who can prevent themselves from becoming potential victims of "acquaintance rape" on the college campus.
  • The Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI): Forcible Rape: The FBI shares the federal definition of forcible rape via the Uniform Crime Reporting (UCR) Program.

Sexual Battery/Assault

Sexual battery or assault involves physically touching another person in a sexual manner without consent. Sexual assault frequently occurs as a male-female combination, with the male being the offending party. Sexual assault involves an involuntary sexual act between threatened, coerced, or forced individuals against their will. It may involve sexual penetration of the vaginal or anal canal with another object, or forced oral penetration. Sexual assault may range in severity from forced kissing to the brutal torture of a victim in a sexual context.

  • Medline Plus: Sexual Assault: Medline Plus defines sexual assault in its more down-to-earth terms, including the inappropriate engagement of sexual acts between an offender and his or her victim.
  • §43.1. Sexual battery: The lawful provisions that define sexual battery and how it differentiates from forcible rape.
  • What Men Should Know About Sexual Battery: The San Diego Police Department shares examples of sexual violations where men neglected to take control of their actions before it spiraled out of control.
  • Sexual Battery Statutes: A comprehensive document that lists and defines numerous sexual battery statutes.
  • Fact Sheet- Sexual Battery: A fact sheet that explains the pertinent facts related to the offense known as sexual battery, the involuntary act of fondling, kissing, touching, or penetrating with a foreign object.

Human Trafficking

Human trafficking has exploded on across the world's black market, with more women and children being forced into prostitution through reproductive slavery. Human trafficking has become the modern form of slavery for unfortunate people around the world. No governmental agency has explicitly defined human trafficking; however, most consider it the involuntary servitude and sexual exploitation of men, women, and children for the sole purpose of commercial gain. Many human traffickers subject their victims to forced prostitution through coercion, deception, and bondage through debt owed. Some victims of human traffickers may become sexual slaves to their new "owners," which may also entail uncompensated labor.

  • An Overview of Human Trafficking: The United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime provide an extensive document that explains the growing phenomenon known as human trafficking.
  • Human Trafficking and Slavery: An extensive document that draws correlations between human trafficking and slavery.
  • Human Trafficking Facts): The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence provides a comprehensive fact sheet that answers commonly asked questions and provides statistical data behind the world's largest detestable crime.
  • The Academy for Educational Development: Human Trafficking: An organization dedicated to educating the masses regarding the horrors of human trafficking, or the illegal trade of human beings for commercial purposes.
  • The Facts About Sex Trafficking: The Advocates for Human Rights shares an important document that offers pertinent facts about sex trafficking rings.

Child Sexual Abuse

Child sexual abuse, also known as child molestation, involves the inappropriate exposure of sexual images, gestures, or acts to minors. Pedophiles are sexual offenders who engage in pressuring adolescents into engaging in illegal sexual activities. A percentage of cases involve a parent or legal guardian who intentionally victimizes their children for their own pleasure. Many forms of child sexual abuse include enticing a child to perform sexual acts through bribery and deception, indecent exposure of the genitals for self-gratification, or to inappropriately groom a child through physical contact. Other forms of child sexual abuse may include forced sexual intercourse and using a child to produce pornography. Adolescents who become victims of child sexual abuse may experience severe depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety attacks, and may have an urge to commit the same sexual abuse they had experienced.

  • Child Sexual Abuse: The United States Department of Veteran Affairs describes how early child sexual abuse leads to deep emotional wounds and psychological disturbances if left untreated by professionals.
  • Indicators Of Child Sexual Abuse: The United States Department of Health and Human Services provides an authoritative list of indicators that a child may be a victim of sexual abuse.
  • Preventing Child Sexual Abuse Within Youth-serving Organizations: The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention offers several documents that helps parents and legal guardians inform children of potential dangers around them that may come in the form of sexual deviance.
  • Long-Term Consequences of Childhood SexualAbuse by Gender of Victim: An abstract paper that examines the long-term consequences of child sexual abuse by gender, especially if the child was left untreated.
  • Child Sexual Abuse: The American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP): A psychiatric organization dedicated to identifying and treating children who have fallen victim to sexual abuse.

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  • boys cry too on Facebook -  Catch us on Facebook discussing the book and sexual abuse.

    Aching Heart - A resource for women survivors of sexual abuse and incest.

    Adam's Dimension - A survivor's story of sexual, physical and emotional abuse. Includes links to a male and female abuse survivors' forum and other resources.

    Admit To Child Abuse - A forum to tell other people how the author felt about being abused.

    Adult Survivors of Child Abuse - Provides information, materials and on-line e-meeting for Individual and group support program for adult survivors of physical, sexual or emotional child abuse or neglect.

    After Silence - A non-profit organization, message board and chat room for rape, sexual abuse, and sexual assault survivors.

    After Silence: Rape and My Journey Back - Exploring attitudes toward rape and its survivors, and the process of recovery from trauma.

    Angelic's Abuse Survivors - For survivors of all types of abuse. Includes forums, poetry, and resources.

    Angels In The Night - Support site for children of sexual abuse. Offering scheduled and moderated chats, tips and other resources.

    Art of Healing - Established artist, Linda Ness, shares her many paintings about her journey of recovery.

    Askios - Self-help group for women survivors of incest providing online information and support via website, message board and email.

    Becoming Gold - Virtual support network for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, that encourages balance to the healing process through creativity, education and support.

    Big Voice Pictures - Produces documentaries that give voice to emerging and cutting-edge social issues, with the intention of motivating discussion, effecting change, and offering new insights and hope for individuals, families, and communities.

    The BirdSong Organization - A NYC based non-profit self-help group for female incest survivors offering a variety of support services including regular weekly meetings.

    The Black Sheep Chronicles - Adult incest survivor's experiences with the aftermath of incest and how and why it affected her relationships with her entire family.

    Breaking the Silence - This Site is to raise Awareness of Child Abuse and do whatever we can to Educate about the trauma it causes to the Victims and their families.

    Broken Wings Shattered Dreams - This site was built by a survivor of child abuse to show that life can go on. To bring awareness of what the mother of an abused child feels. Also to remember the children who died from the abuse they suffered.

    Butterfly Gardens - A site dedicated to victims/survivors of sexual abuse and incest.

    Chasing The Wind - Poetry on sexual and physical abuse by a proud survivor.

    Child Abuse Survivors Support - A peer support forum for survivors of child abuse.

    Colchester Rape Crisis Line - Provides counseling and support for rape victims, families and survivors of childhood sexual abuse.

    Confronting Collusion in Churches - This site offers a source of support for survivors, church leaders and survivor advocates struggling with clergy sexual abuse, domestic violence and incest.

    Dancing In The Darkness - Help and support for survivors of rape and sexual abuse. A safe place to share stories, hope and courage.

    Echoes - Created for survivors of rape and sexual abuse. Includes a personal story, articles, poems, and links.

    EeyoreGirl's Page - A Christian's experience with childhood sexual abuse, her healing and her faith.

    Encouragement for Childhood Sexual Abuse Survivors - A site for those who have been sexually abused.

    Fort Refuge - Supporting community for survivors of all types of abuse including Child abuse, incest, rape, ritual abuse, psychological and verbal abuse.

    From Surviving to Thriving - Support for rape and sexual assault survivors from a survivor. Includes forum, chat, and survivor stories.

    Gary: A Personal Essay - Memorial for a child abuse victim who didn't survive.

    Generation Five - A movement to end child sexual abuse in five generations through survivor leadership, community organization and public action.

    Group on Facebook - Support for Victims of Sexual Abuse - The Voice Information

    Group on Facebook - Breaking The Silence on Child Abuse. Lets STOP it NOW!!

    Group on Facebook - IMAGINE... A WORLD WITHOUT VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN AND GIRLS...

    Group on Facebook - International Days: Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse and Violence.

    Group on Facebook - The Woodhull Freedom Foundation - Non-Profit Organization.

    HEAL (Helping Everyone Abused Live) - Offers support and self help for adult survivors of childhood abuse.

    Healing Broken Angels - Information and help for survivors of sexual assault and rape.

    Healing from Abuse - This site seeks to address the unique issues of the emotionally, physically, and sexually abused. Chatroom, helpful links, book recommendations, support groups, and Healing Steps, and more are included in the healing journey.

    Healing Minds - A site dedicated to survivors of abuse and sexual assault.

    Healing Together - A supportive environment which is safe and secure for survivors of sexual abuse of both female and male. Gain understanding and support from other survivors.

    Healing Wounds - Healing Wounds is a safe haven dedicated to survivors, a forum to talk about their trauma's and to heal.

    The Hope of Survivors - Provides support, hope and encouragement for victims of clergy sexual abuse and misconduct.

    I Am A Survivor Not A Victim - A survivor shares her story of sexual abuse.

    Inscriptions of Hope - Newsletter of writings from survivors of childhood abuse.

    International Days: Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse and Violence - A site dedicated in creating an International Day for Male Survivors of sexual abuse and violence.

    Isurvive.org - A non-profit online community center for abuse survivors providing anonymous discussions boards, chat rooms and other resources.

    It Happened to Alexa Foundation - A resource for victims of sexual assault to receive money to ease the burden of attending a criminal trial.

    Jane Rowan - Jane shares her experience of healing from childhood sexual abuse.

    Jenny's Child Abuse Survivor Support - Jenny shares her story and poetry and offers support to fellow survivors.

    The Journey Home - Victim of childhood sexual abuse until the age of fifteen, Pat Swinger tells the story of her healing journey.

    Journey To Freedom - Hope and healing for victims and survivors of child sexual abuse and sexual assault.

    Journey to Healing - Offers help and healing for sexual abuse, incest and rape victims.

    Kingdom Abuse Survivors Project - A resource for survivors of childhood sexual abuse in the form of forums, chat rooms, help and advice.

    The Lamplighters - A movement for victims of incest and child sexual abuse. Offers a recovery program for children and adults.

    Lorretta Woodbury Online - Lorretta is a survivor's rights activist who offers support to other survivors.

    Midnight Secrets - Provides information and support for sexual abuse and incest survivors.

    The Mighty Phoenix - Offers survivors of sexual abuse information to help the healing process.

    Miss Kitty's Place - Site offers useful information for victims, abusers and survivors.

    Mollykat's Resources For Survivors - Information about depression, PTSD, dissociative identity disorder and borderline personality disorders.

    My Painful Smiles - A site to help the healing of childhood sexual abuse. A place for families to learn what the victims are going through.

    My Twisted Sukha - This site deals with the affects of sexual abuse by a female perpetrator.

    National Association for People Abused in Childhood ( NAPAC) - NAPAC is a registered charity, which has been set up as a result of a key recommendation by the National Commission of Inquiry into the Prevention of Child Abuse.

    Netter's Place - Abuse Survivor Links - Offers links to different sites for abuse survivors seeking support and self help.

    Optimystic - This site is about living with optimism and faith to overcome childhood abuse.

    Pandora's Aquarium - Provides a message board and chat room for survivors and their supporters.

    Peaceful Haven - A personal experience of emotional, mental and sexual abuse.

    Pressing On... - A site dedicated to the survivors of sexual abuse and incest. Provides practical info about sexual abuse, self-injury, eating disorders, quotes and fun links to nurture the child within.

    Project Hugs - A site where people who have suffered childhood abuse can write their story for a book due to be published.

    Prysmstar - Survivor's story, message board, poetry and links to other resources.

    RAINN - Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network

    Recovery - Short, original essays about all aspects of recovery from childhood abuse.

    Recovery - A woman's continuing fight to overcome the trauma of sexual abuse.

    Safe Haven - A site for survivors of sexual abuse and rape. Includes personal stories, poetry, tips, advice on coping day-to-day and an interactive message forum.

    Safe Horizon - Help for Child Abuse in the Community

    Safeline - This UK site provides information and help for adults who were sexually abused as children.

    Sexual Abuse Centre - Provides support, counseling and information to survivors of sexual abuse and rape through a variety of services.

    Share Your Survival Story - A web site where people can share their own personal stories of survival. Includes helpful links and other resources.

    S.H.E. Survivors Helping Each Other - Self help based charity for women survivors of childhood sexual abuse encourages a creative approach to healing and to promote public education and awareness.

    The Silver Braid Survivors of Sexual Exploitation - Providing helpful information to those who have been victims of sexual exploitation.

    Stop The Silence - A page dedicated to helping fellow survivors of sexual abuse. Includes support forums, useful links and personal experiences.

    Survive - Survive is a registered voluntary organization that provides support and help to survivors of child sexual abuse.

    Survivor Matters - Information and support forum for any survivors of any type of abuse. Created by survivors for survivors.

    Survivors - Stories, writings, links and resources for survivors of sexual assault.

    Survivors Can Thrive - Meditations, resources and tips for sexual abuse survivors.

    Survivors Chat - A support site, chat rooms, and resources for survivors of rape, incest, sexual abuse, or SRA.

    The Survivors Forum - This site offers chat rooms, forums and other resources for survivors of sexual abuse.

    Survivors Healing - Information to help survivors of sexual abuse in healing and the opportunity to share stories, experiences, triumphs and challenges.

    Survivors Of Abuse in Religion (SOAR) - An online support group for survivors of sexual abuse in any religion.

    Survivors of Green - Dedicated to the survivors of Dr Green, guilty of multiple counts of indecent assault against male patients in Loughborough, Leicestershire.

    Survivor's Personal Healing Journey - A survivor and publisher shares her stories of surviving sexual abuse.

    Survivors Safe House - A safe and secure site for survivors and victims of sexual abuse regardless of age or gender.

    Survivors Sanctuary - A safe place of support and resources for survivors of abuse, sexual, mental or physical. Everyone is welcome regardless of gender.

    Survivors UK - Provides information, support and counseling for men who have been raped or sexually abused.

    Swampy's Passions - A story of one woman's survival of sexual abuse.

    Taking Back Control - A resource and message board for sexual assault survivors.

    Tamar's House - Provides programs to aid in alleviating the long-term effects of childhood sexual abuse and assist survivors in healing from this devastating experience.

    Tamar's Voice - This non-profit organization offers help and support for victims of sexual abuse by clergy.

    True Perspective of Sexual Trauma - Information on blame, therapy, dissociation, and anger. Includes resources, predator types and behavior patterns.

    What you call Home. We call Hell. - Site on healing from incest, childhood sexual assault and rape. The affects and impact it has on a survivor’s life.

    What You Should Know About Rape And Sexual Assault - A site dedicated to rape and sexual assault information.

    Whitedoves Nest - A site dedicated to sexual abuse survivors and their supporters. Share your story, poetry, art, and tips on recovery.

    You Are Not Alone - A survivor shares her story and offers resources for recovery.